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Glad u had a good night with friends Kel Alcohol does seem to have a bigger effect now, but the odd one is nice Take care. Linda x

Hi Everyone, my ears are also very sensitive! Last year I wasnt well enough to retaliate but when my neighbour put his droning music on loud - again - (as soon as his parents went out) like he has for ages, I lost it!! What ever the weather he also has to open his bedroom window so the noise travels even better!! Stormed round and banged so hard on the door it flew open and shouted at him from the bottom of the stairs - I like to thing he was too scared of me to come down!! He has been a bit better but it is starting to creep up again

Oh Mary and Di - I so know what you mean - my hearing is the thing that troubles me most! I have lost some hearing in one ear, which a hearing aid did not help! My ears feel like they are underwater, sound is muffled and echoes! Plus the constant buzzing drives me mad! I think thats why I like being outside as its not so noticeable, whereas indoors -voices, music and the TV drone in my head! Glad Im not the only one! xx

Hello, I do agree with Louise, you have so much on your plate, I realise that everyones recovery and pace is different but your brain and body do really seem to be struggling to keep up with you and seems to me it is shouting at you to slow down! Please try if you can, take care, Linda

Bev, going back must be so hard. I only went to visit on my year anniversary and I found it very emotional. No wonder you feel uneasy, your poor brain must be going into overdrive! Take care of yourself and try not to think to hard and just take each day at a time and talk to people to share and half your worries, big hugs xx

Well done Dawn, I hope you managed to enjoy it! You have given me the encouragement to start trying again xx

Its been fascinating reading about your hearing problems. Mary, I agree with you in that I love to be outside or shopping, I get distracted from the buzzing, indoors its just hard to cope with sometimes. Television doesnt seem to help although I have lost some hearing in one ear so struggle to hear what is being said and the tele just drones in my head! I will have to look into the third nerve palsy Bill, because I know nothing about it! Also the sleep quality Daff, never thought of that! Look forward to others comments xx

Hi Loretta, Im sorry your husband is in a bad place at the moment. My SAH was just over a year ago - for the first 4/6 months I was quite relaxed and was happy just sitting and watching my family and life go on around me. From 6 months up to now I do not recognise myself most of the time, I get angry and upset at the slightest thing and always think I am letting people down or they are having a go at me! Ive kind of lost my way and sometimes just want to hide away. People say its a bereavement of your former self, which does make sense. I realise how hard it must be for you but for myself I just need time to calm down and for my family to listen to me rant sometimes and then give me a big hug which Im sure you do for your husband. Take care, Linda xx

Hi David, quite new on here so didn't do this last year but its been fascinating to read what everyone is saying! Its reassuring because its over a year since my SAH and I feel a fraud because inside I do not feel 100%, even tho to other people they think I am! I feel guilty that I still have really 'tired and sad' days. The main thing now is that Im still lost and dont recognise myself, with regard to feelings and actions! So outwardly I would say 90% but inwardly 50-ish% Sorry that your mark has gone down a bit but you are also working a lot more which must be taking it out of you! Thank you for doing this, take care, Linda x

Hi Wem, Im sorry you have it too but its nice to know that other people have it! Bucket of water is exactly right, although it didnt start straight after my SAH but about 4/5 months afterwards! Also certain sounds kind of echo and drone in my head and I have some hearing loss in that ear! Lets keep things crossed that in time it may get better? Take care Linda x

Bev, Im sorry you have been having problems! The buzzing, echo-y sound in my ears does drive you mad sometimes! I agree it does seem to be worse when I am tired! I have been given a hearing aid but to be honest it doesnt help much, I dont think I will carry on with it because there are more bad things with it than good! Worth a try tho! I do understand what you mean about getting a job - I have no confidence now, I am due to start helping at Headway next week but really dont now how to sell myself to future employers! Perhaps we need a little more time, but Im scared the longer I leave it, the harder it will be? Take care of yourself and hope to speak again soon, Linda

Hi Enez Finding BTG early will be a great comfort, ask any question that comes into you head - we all need to understand what happened to us! I totally agree that you must rest and give your head time! Take care, Linda x

Sue, that it a fantastic word!! I love your outlook on life - you are a inspiration! Good luck to you and your mum in whatever life adventures comes your way. You deserve the best! Love and hugs, Linda xx

I have just read your first post your put on here in 2010! Bless you, you have been so much! One small thing that jumped out at me was the muffled hearing - do you still have this! This also happened to me but a few months after my SAH. I still have it now over a year later. I was given a tinnitus hearing aid but it made no difference. It feels like my ear is under water with a slight whooshing sound and some noises/voices sound muffled and echo-y! I have also just started to find a job, I went to an interview on friday and it seemed to be going well, but as it was in my local village, I told him about my SAH and the interview didnt carry on much longer after that! I will keep trying, not sure what to do about telling people about my head trauma? You have been very brave and done so very well, sending you big hugs, Linda xx

Carolyn, that's great news! Will keep everything crossed! Take care xx