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BernieH

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    Warwickshire
  • SAH/Stroke Date
    25/12/12
  1. Thank you for all the support, just reading your letters to me make me feel so much better and hopefully more able to be in control of my feelings so I can help Ross. I think I will be reading your responses every day for a while to keep us going. I'll keep you posted on the progress Regards, BernieH
  2. Hi, My husband Ross, aged 40, had his SAH in the early hours of Christmas day 2012, on a scale of 1- 5, his was a grade 1. I know I'm extreamly fortunate to even have him here still with me, and 3 months on he has just started to go back to work. Unfortunately he his a self-employed kitchen fitter so things have been difficult 1) without his wages and 2) his job entails lots of heavy lifting. I think because it was low graded bleed, and to see him and talk to him, he is completely normal, I almost forget that thinks could be so different and he is a different man than he was before. We have been together for 22 years, married for 14 and have had a excellent relationship, until today, we have had a big argument which has been brewing up all weekend. I have been so upset to hear him say he wishes he was dead. That the constant headache is driving him insane. Basiclly, I know it's still early days, but have any other carers got any good tips on how to cope with my un-certainty, my fears and general day to day life. I know i'm not the victim in this, but help in being brunt of the black moods would be appreciated. I don't know how i can help him when i feel so low aswell.
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