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Bman250

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Bman250 last won the day on March 2 2016

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About Bman250

  • Birthday 19/08/1952

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    Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio USA
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    CYCLING, KAYAKING, FISHING, READING, GOLF, HIKING, HANGING OUT WITH MY LOVELY WIFE TRISH AND MY FAITHFUL CANINE FRIEND, SOPHIE

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  1. Hi William, Mine was 15 months ago but I've turned the corner. Lots of great advice and support here. Hope you are doing well and moving in the right direction. Don't be a stranger. Take care, Bill C
  2. Hi Nat, I think we all go through that fear. I did, especially during times of exertion such as exercise, sneezing, coughing, sex, going to the bathroom etc. My SAH occurred New Years Eve 2014 shortly after having sex. As you can imagine my fear of having sex post SAH. I eventually did and confidence has finally returned as with most other activities. It takes time, I think so much info on the web is just opinion and therefore bogus so beware and stay clear. Focus on the here and now, be close to those that you love, start excepting that stranger in your body as the new normal and it will get better. Laughter and exercise for the endorphins, water for cleansing and chocolate because you deserve it! Take care, Bill C
  3. Hi Mistina,, I too had my SAH on this past New Years Eve right after sex and was in the shower, as a result have had a problem with sex ever since. It's not that I don't have the desire it's more of a performance issue with me. My wife has been very understanding and I've had some counseling which has helped, though not crazy about the drugs available to males. I also just blacked out and was gone for 2-3 days, spent 2 weeks in nuero ICU removed my shunt, three MRAs later was given the all clear and sent to rehab for 2 weeks. All I can say is trust those who love you and the professionals in your life. It was difficult and fearful to involve myself in anything that required exertion so I know and understand your fear. Tread lightly and you will eventually gain confidence. It all gets better with time, count your blessings, go out and dance, exercise, drink plenty of water and have that baby you can do it! We've all been where you are keep smiling and play your music! Take care, Bill C
  4. Bman250

    A Journey in Verse

    You have summed it up so poetically Macca. Thank you. Bill C
  5. Hello ladies, I'm a newbie also 10months out now. Though I frequented this site for 7 months until I joined it has been lifesaver for me. It's unbelievable that you put up with that headache and not having the correct diagnosis for as long as you did. We all know that headache and can relate to what you have gone through. I remember crying all the time for the first month, it was actually something I really didn't mind, being the macho guy that I am crying was a new experience for me and felt kind of good. You have a family here and a lot of support and understanding. Make sure you get your exercise and plenty of water. You'll find that as you heal you will rediscover yourself and find that new normal that will be comfortable. My best to you, Bill C
  6. Hi Andrea, I had two done in the hospital, because they couldn't believe that the annuerysm had clotted itself off. I was very fortunate. My SAH occurred on New Years Eve. I had my first follow up MRA on 6/16 and am scheduled for another in a year. And was told I should have one done yearly for 5 years, of course they love to spend those medical dollars here in the States. But who am I to argue, they saved my life once. Good Luck, Bill C
  7. Keep up your rehab and working out. I have found the elliptical has helped my stamina immensely. Chasing after grandkids has done it too
  8. Thanks so much for the warm welcome. Winb, not sure if i followed you but you had me laughing nevertheless thank you! Iola I love your expression of being a stranger in your own body that really sums it up I so agree. Finding the new normal and embracing it is a key to a positive recovery. My best to all, Bill C
  9. Hi Karl, Driving was a big concern of mine also. When I was ready which was about 5 months post SAH my GP referred me to a local driving school to be evaluated. I attended and so glad I did, my " instructor " spent about 4 hours with me. Giving me a written test a tour on there driving course then into live traffic. It helped to restore my confidence more than anything else. Would highly recommend it. Bill C
  10. You will get better! Be patient and listen to your body.
  11. Hi all, I was very fortunate to have a volunteer stop by when I was in rehab and she told me of this site before I left the hospital. I immediately joined the site when I got home and have been a silent member for 9 months now, having read many posts and followed many of your journeys and have found solace and encouragement from all of you thank you so much. I'm not sure why I waited so long to tell my story but better late than never. This past New Years Eve my wife and I were planning on heading to the southern part of our state, Ohio to a popular area known as Hocking Hills for the New Year. I was going to go into work for a half day and cut out early so we could get a start on the holiday. I was in the shower when my burst annuerysm occured I had no idea what was happening the veil came down and suddenly I was on the floor of the shower struggling to get out and call for help. It was all a blur from there I don't remember much just what my wife, Trish has recounted for me. A SAH and two subsequent strokes upon the repair. I consider myself a walking miracle and so fortunate to have had the wonderful care at University Hospitals Neuro unit in Cleveland.. Yes I said University Hospital not the Cleveland Clinic. Dr. Bambakidis and his staff saved my life. NCU for two weeks then two weeks in Akron City Hospital's rehab unit. I can't say enough about both facilites. I am 9 months out now and still recovering. I didn't return to work since I was so close to retirement and rehabilitation is full time work anyhow. All you souls that are younger and have jobs and children, I commend you for your bravery and perseverance. I'm having a hard enough time worrying about me. I too have had many of the after affects that I have read about here and feel so fortunate for having had this site to refer to and realize this is all part of the healing process. Everything from the fatigue, head aches, disruptive sleep patterns and moments of what I call fugue which I can't really describe other than the feeling of detachment and not feeling in total control as I'm sure you all can relate. I owe my life and successful recovery to my lovely wife, Trish. What I have put her through! She never left the hospital when I was in NCU, meeting with the staff every morning and monitoring my progress or lack thereof. I gave her such a scare and can remember being not a very good patient. She has helped through my rehab and recovery at home. To the point where I am driving now and probably have recovered 75% of my lost physicality. I haven't mentioned the fact that my wife is in pain management from a 4 level fusion in her neck due to an auto accident so we kid each other about who is the worst of the walking wounded and what a great pair we make. I am so lucky in so many ways to have had the love and care and encouragement from family and friends. Had my first follow up MRA last month and came back with flying colors. We finally made it to Hocking Hills a few weeks ago for my 63rd birthday and had a celebration of life! So thankful! This recovery is a constant process and challenge. It has taught me focus, patience, perseverance and has tested my resolve to the core. I can honestly say I am glad to have gone through this experience. It made me aware of how important our loving relationships are and the care and outpouring of support from so many people was very moving. I can't say enough about the power of prayer and how impotant the will of our innerselves can affect the outcome of the most dire situations. Thanks for listening and thanks to all of you who have made my recovery easier. Bill C
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