Hello everyone.
My SO/hubby had an aneurysm in 2007, it leaked and then, during surgery it burst. Physically he came out fine but his personality changed. When I met him, a year before his aneurysm, he was a very high energy person, always doing something, trying to solve problems...just very energetic and full of life. After his aneurysm he became kind of "dull", if that is the right word. He doesn't want to do much, he has problems focusing and keeping focused at work as well. Short term memory problems too. Age is probably not helping much (he is 62 now), but is physically in excellent health (we both are kind of healthnuts, lol).
I just find I am having a hard time with him being so unmotivated. I am the one who has to constantly ask...is that done, could you do that....and it grates on me. It is almost like having a teenager all over again. He is 90 % good with me asking him, he goes and does it right away. But for me, it still feels like I am kind of his mother not his wife.
How are others dealing with this? Any ideas how he could improve his memory and energy level? As I said, we eat exceptionally well, we exercise, we don't have much stress (besides not much work because of the economy) but all over, I would say our stress level is low.
Thanks in advance.