Thank you so very much for all your kind replies, I thought it was just me being really selfish by having such negative thoughts but obviously not.
I will suggest that my hubby joins this site, as you say, it may help him too.
I am waiting for an appointment with Headway, but like everything it takes time, I'm also awaiting appointments for neuro therapy and physio.
Thank you once again for the replies, a bad day has been made better by chatting on here.
I wish you all the very best of luck with your recoveries.
Paula x