Hi all,
Thanks for all your kind words-Janet I got your PM earlier but can't reply for some reason, I'm only in Wallasey so just down the road from you! I'll get my internet sorted and get back to you soon as!
Well it's now gone 2am and I still can't sleep My sleep pattern has gone completely since my SAH and this is the worst time for me-sitting in the flat on my own, noone to talk to so my brain seems to go into overdrive. This is when the feelings change the most I swing from happy/sad/lucky/guilty/suicidal at times-then guilty again for thinking like that as I've been so lucky to be given a 2nd chance....so confusing!!
Finding everday a challenge at the moment-even a conversation is exhausting as I'm trying to think ahead of what I want to say so i don't forget the words and look daft!! Called into work today-I've got a barbers shop-and did 2 haircuts as they were busy-got totally fed up with people telling me how well I look! I'm sure a lot of you have had that too-if it was a spot on the end of my nose people would see I'm not ok, but because I do my hair and throw a bit of slap on my face I'm left feeling like a fraud who's milking it!.....probably just my interpretation but you can't help what you think!! I'm actually thinking of printing info off and putting it up in the shop to stop the questions-it's all like "oh well, you've had your op and a few months off so you must be better now!"-if only they knew exactly what 'recovery' entails!
I'm off to count sheep-take care, night all! Sandie xxx