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DaughterofWinB143

My mum sadly passed away

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Devastated by this news. My SAH was almost ten years ago. It was some time before I found out about this site and when I joined Win was one of the first people to greet me and she told me about singing and having a laugh. I didn't think much of it at first but then one day she said something very profound and it has stuck with me ever since.  She told me there was always someone worse off than yourself, and rather than be miserable and look on the down side of life, I should look for new opportunities as the 'new you.'

 

It didn't dawn on me until a couple of days later what she was really saying- my flash to bang time wasn't very good after my SAH - that she was indeed talking about herself, and she was basically telling me I should count myself lucky. I could still see my kids and grandkids grow, I could still walk and talk and look forward to going back to work, albeit in a reduced capacity, and so on.

 

The more I thought about it, I thought that's one savvy, gutsy lady, what have I got to cry about. From that realisation day on,  I always tell people to look on the bright side of life, have your sad moment, but then get back on your feet and take the world on and get the most out of life.

 

That's what Win did for me - and she told me in that most British, English way - with classic, understated brilliance and simplicity that I only had to open my eyes to see. 

 

Thanks Win, RIP Sleep tight.

 

Macca

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I loved your mom so very, very much. She was my great friend and I will miss her dearly. Love to you and your family. Carolyn

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I am very sorry for your loss. Whenever I read anything from Win I though she has such a positive attitude and was always trying to help others in their recovery . I was very sad to read this news indeed. 

 

xxx

 

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Dearest Sarah,

 

i had not been on in a bit and this is the first thread I came upon. I am so shocked and saddened for the loss to BTG but know it is nothing compared to what you and your family is  enduring. Win has been such a bright light to us all, always ready with encouragement and so good at teaching us to laugh at and accept ourselves. She will be so sorely missed. Prayers of comfort for you and your family, including Tilly.  It was so clear how very much she loved you all.

 

Colleen

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Thank you for the lovely flowers and card we just received, it was very kind of you all and much appreciated. My dad placed them on the table next to my mums chair.

 

sarah

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Glad you liked them xxx

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Hi Sarah

 

So glad that you liked them - we all thought the brightness reflected your mum's warmth and personality.  

 

Lots of love and many, many hugs  Sami xxx

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Thinking of you Sarah and your Dad .... more hugs from me too ... xx

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