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thank you very much for all the replys i appreciate it very much, i dont feel alone any more, everyone is in the same position and know how i am feeling because we have all been through the same thing, no disrespect to anyones partners, family etc, but unless it has happened to u , no one knows how u feel, i find my family getting fustrated with me when i carnt remember things what they have said to me, and they think i am back to normal cos i look ok and i am not, i know it is a long process, didnt realise that it would take time to get back to normal, sometimes i wonder if i will ever be my normal self again, i know that i am not ready to return to my job yet, i was a mobile care assistant, i looked after elderly people which i loved every minute of it, i worked long hrs, but it was very rewarding to see people happy to see u, i dont feel ready to go back to work yet, as u know have good days and bad days, i also have 4 boys, but the youngest is 17, the boys are a great help and i dont know what i would do without them, they all help with shopping, cleaning etc, anything , they have been great i am very lucky and proud of them, i just wanted to ask does anybody know what help there is for us., i was told to claim for dla which i did but got refused x
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my name is paula, i am 41, i had a subarachnoid haemorrage in may 2009 and a stroke, i have had my 6mth scan in nov and have been told i have to have a scan every 6mths as they think i have another anurysm but they are not 100 per cent sure , i am trying not to worry, am still not back to my normal self, find it hard to do day to day things, have regular headaches, dizziness and tiredness.
Message from trish re:DLA
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i have been refused twice and like one of the other members said if i was a druggy or an alky i would get it , i intend to appeal again and again, till i get it, i have not packed my job in, i have got 4 children and always worked to provide for them, since me not bein able to work through my haemorrhage i am struggling, my advice is to carry on if u get refused appeal appeal appeal, u prob get refused but if u keep on appealing u will get it, its not our fault we have had to come out of work we didnt choose too x gud luck to everyone x:-D xx