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I am 3 years out from my event. I had a lot of worry about my job right after my SAH....I kept telling everyone that I wanted to get back to work....It really doesn't seem to make sense to me now why I was so intense about it. I did go back to work and worked 3 more years and recently retired.
Looking back at it I think I used a lot of mental energy, and some physical trying to keep everything in order...It was exhausting.
I have found time to be the biggest healer for me...it hasn't been very long since your event, I know you probably feel like it has been, I understand that. The brain healing is unlike any other illness we may have experienced in our lives. It is slow but steady, I found. I am still better each year as I look back on my progress.
I hope you find your days to improve as time moves forward. Be very gentle and kind to yourself. I found this to be so important but it took me a while to realize it. We are here for you, we know how difficult it is...
I am going on 12 years out from the SAH and still have some nights where I am so fidgety I can barely tolerate myself. I really can’t say it is or isn’t related to the SAH, or some other neurological issue ( I have some pretty serious spinal arthritis). I agree with Tina that often it is related to being overtired. I use an herbal tea with Passion flower that helps.
I've got people that I don't see that often anymore but more to do with life than my SAH. I have two really close friends who were there before and have been there since.
If they're seeing as a "burden" then, sorry, but they're not really friends. Do you know that they didn't invite you because they'd see you as a "burden" or did they not invite you so as not to make you either 1. feel guilty about not being able to go or 2. feel that you had to? Is there one of these friends that you're closer to than others that you can maybe ask??