Y'all have been too helpful. Today I called to get her pain medication changed. The pain in her legs are something I would not wish on my worst enemy. My wife is 37. She asked me when we are getting busy (having sex). I said we have to wait until we see your doctor. She can't wait that long. I want to make her happy but I don't want her to have a stroke or something worse. Are there folks who are Sexually Active after SAH. Thanks in advance. Curt