Hi. This is Debbie, and tomorrow is the one year anniversary that I had my SAH.
I had a non-aneurysmal SAH, and was in Intensive Care (I live in the states) for 10 days.
I had some symptoms and still have more headaches than I'd like, but for the most part, I am 95%, maybe a little less, but I am extremely lucky.
The night it happened, my daughter was in college in Boston (I live in NJ), and I had to tell her over the phone.
She and my husband (who were here) were up all night and waiting for news, and endured the 10 days while I was alone because no one was allowed in the hospital during COVID.
Question, my daughter called me crying, I am thinking of going up to Boston. Is this a celebration? It seems like it should be, however I also feel like we are re-living trauma. My husband is very devoted, but he says he doesn't feel anything about the day (like we do). Any thoughts? Thank you!