Hi! I also had a SAH 7 years ago, have a 14 year old daughter (and 10 year old son & 2 year old daughter). I have primarily been a lurker on this board, but I wanted to let you know that I relate to so much of what you post! I feel the same on the outside but still struggle with word recollection, my memory isn't as strong as was and I have a constant low grade headache. I strongly believe that stress caused my original SAH, as does a friend of mine who is a nurse. Ultimately my neurologist told me that I will never know the true reason as I didn't have any obvious reason for my first bleed. Sending hugs and wishing you well.