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MUTTI

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  1. KAREN

    AS YOU KNOW I AM IN SHOW LOW, ARIZONA

    NOT SURE I KNOW WHAT TO SUGGEST YOU ARE NOT GOING TO HAVE THE RESOURSES TO OBTAIN ALOT OF INFO FROM USA LIKE THE WAY YOU DO FOR THOSE IN UK AND WHO TO GO TO FOR HELP ON DIFFERENT THINGS AND US HERE DON'T GET THE RESOURCES LIKE YOU DO THERE.

    BUT WILL LET YOU KNOW IF I COME UP WITH ANYTHING.

    THANK YOU EVELYN

  2. HI ALL

    I HAVE FOUND THAT MAKING NEW FRIENDS DOESN'T HAPPEN EITHER YOU MENTION YOU HAVE HAD AN SAH AND THEY DON'T WANT TO TALK TO YOU ANY MORE AND ACTUALLY AVOID YOU. RIGHT AFTER MY EVENT I MET A HELPPER AT TIARA'S SCHOOL HER SISTER HAD TWO SAH A COUPLE YEARS APART AND THEN A COUPLE YEARS LATER DIED OF CANCER. ENE SHE AVOIDED ME AFTER I TOLD I HAD AN SAH. I FIND PEOPLE ARE VERY STRANGE AND FAMILY SO UNPERDICTABLE THEY CALL FOR THE FIRST COUPLE MONTHS AND THEN IT IS OVER FOR THEM AND THE CALLS STOP. THE KIDS DON'T WNAT TO TALK ABOUT IT MY HUSBAND WILL LISTEN HE WANTS TO UNDERSTAND AND DOES TRY, BUT FOR HIM TRULEY TO UNDERSTAND I DON'T WANT WHAT THAT WOULD TAKE.

    LOVE HUGS EVELYN

  3. HI LAURA

    I DO UNDERSTAND COMPLETELY. JIM LIKES ME TO TALK TO HIM WHILE WE ARE DRIVING AND SEEMS ANY MORE MY MIND IS BLANK MOST OF THE TIME AND I FEEL LIKE SUCH AN IDIOT FOR NOT BEING ABLE TO CARRY ON A CONVERSATION. OR WHEN HE TALKS ABOUT THE SECRETARY AT WORK IT TRULEY BOTHERS ME.

    BUT SARAH IS RIGHT WE HAVE TO TRY TO BELIEVE BECAUSE IT WILL MAKE US CRAZY. BUT NEVER BE AFRAID TO TALK TO US ABOUT WHAT EVER TROUBLES YOU IT HELPS THE REST OF US TO HELP EACH OTHER I THINK.

    LOVE & HUGS EVELYN

  4. HI EVERYONE

    IT IS A GREAT COMFORT KNOWING YOU ARE ALL HERE AND THAT I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO FEELS THIS

    WAY IT IS SUCH AN EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER. JUST WISH I COULD SAY STOP THE RIDE. AND YES DONNA I HATE MYSELF AS WELL. AND I ALSO FEEL ANGRY THAT MY BODY HAS LET ME DOWN SHIREE.

    BUT I THANK EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT.

    LOVE AND HUGS TO ALL MY FRIENDS EVELYN

  5. HI DONNA

    HAVE NOT GONE BACK TO WORK AND I AM NOT PLANNING ONIT SO CAN'T HELP THERE BUT I CAN TELL YOU THAT I GET THAT FEELING IN MY HEAD WHEN I AM IN A NEW OR SITUATION THAT I HAVE NOT BEEN IN FOR AWHILE IT HIT YOU LIKE A PANIC AND YOU JUST KEEPING TELLING YOURSELF THAT YOUR ALRIGHT AND IT WILL PASS BUT DEEP INSIDE IT IS SCARY ATLEAST FOR ME IT IS. BUT I AM SURE IT WILL PASS WITH TIME.

    LOVE & HUGS EVELYN :mrgreen:

  6. WELCOME NYX

    THE DR ARE RIGHT ON BOTH ACCOUNTS BE CAUTIOUSLY OPTIMISTIC. THEY REALY HAVE NO WAY OF KNOWING WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN SHE WAKES UP AND THERE HAVE BEEN THOSE THAT DO BETTER THAN EVER CAN BE EXPECTED AND THEN THOSE ON THE OPPOSITE THAT CAN TAKE TIME TO RECOVER.

    I AM A SAH SURRVIVOR AND ONLY CAN TEL YOU WHAT MY FAMILY TOLD ME AND THAT IS THEY WERE SCARED AS WELL AND THERE ARE NO ANSWERS, JUST A WAITING GAME. BUT YOU WILL GET A LOT OF SUPPORT HERE, SO DON'T BE AFRAID TO ASK WHAT EVER IS ON YOUR MIND.

    LOVE HUGS AND PRAYERS EVELYN :mrgreen:

  7. HI KELLY

    AFTER MY EVENT MY HUSBAND STARTED SPENDING. BEFOR I TOOK CARE OF OUR BOOLS AND WE LIVED ON A PRETTY STRICKED BUDGET, BUT AFTER HE SAID LIFE WAS TO SHORT AND WE WERE NOT GOING TO TELL OURSELVES NO ANY MORE. AND MY HOW HE HAS OVER DONE IT... :(

    LOVE HUGS EVELYN :mrgreen:

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