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Louise

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  1. Hi Davie

     

    Warm welcome to the site so glad that you found us..

     

    Think we've all had a similar situ your still early in your recovery even if you don't think so it does take time.

     

    take things easy listen to your body when you need to rest do don't push, keep hydrated, rest, maybe keep a diary that way you'll notice how well your doing even if you haven't noticed... 

     

    take care..

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  2. Here, here Daff me too  I'll take that over the alternative any day, without my shunt I wouldn't be here it keeps me alive and for that I am SO greatful...

     

    No don't waste your life with the bitterness live it you have been given a rare chance denied my many..

     

    I've had mine 15years now, & I don't know of anyone that has had any problems so go on PLEASE put this behind you and start living your life...

     

     

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  3. Hi Claudette

     

    Warm welcome glad you found the site, yes its great just knowing others know just what its like...

     

    Everyone has said it all, remember not to do too must rest as often as your body needs too, drink plenty keep hydrated and hope to hear from you again soon.

     

    take care

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  4. Hey Daff

     

    Just reading this and thinking I could have written it – tired brain that is never fully charged up and raring to go.

     

    People well with me its family seeing me as being different, so their method to cope with that is don’t see me at all…

     

    I am not sure its more shunt than SAH I think SAH has a lot to do with it, its how our brains work now we’re re-wired maybe you not for sound…

     

    We are indeed the lucky ones because there are lots (I saw some in the rehab hospital) that just don’t do as good as we do, even though we end up with other hang ups like you wishing you could be part of the breakfast mayhem, and me wishing that family never ignored me because of something that I couldn’t help happening or changing..

     

    I feel my shunt stress yes mostly weather changes though.

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  5. Hi there

     

    I felt like that too many years ago.

     

    Firstly you can get a card from Headway I have it in my purse it's just like a bank card same size.

     

    Secondly I also have an SOS chain when you unscrew it, it has all my information in it, for me both thing made going out just that little bit easier...

  6. Hi there warm welcome.

     

    Sorry to hear what your going through, we never claimed when I had my SAH (maybe should have it would have helped) so sorry cant help but usually someone comes along at some point that can help.

     

    I'm not surprised your disgusted with them I would be, (my first instint is to say go to the papers/watch dog) because you take the insurance out in good faith thinking that when needed your covered...

     

    take care all the best.

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  7. I would just take it a day at a time, no need to say its going to take a long time at the minute, she'll still be getting to grips with what's happened.

    With me my husband told me, then I'd forget anyway took a long time for me before the reality of it all sunk in...

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  8. Hey Luke

     

    warm welcome glad you found us.

     

    I hope your Mum recovers well it is a long process, yes never take things personally.

     

    Words of wisdom, oh don't know, things will improve slowly (don't know if that's wisdom or not)

     

    Remember to take care of yourselves (& yes writing things down is SO therapeutic)

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  9. Jerome, I think its quite normal to wait 3months for your appointment they leave it like that so things start to settle down..

     

    Any questions you have write them down because once your in there your mind will just go blank...

     

    I think we all leave hospital not really knowing or understanding what has happened to us, with little information given, and yes to the support groups (as you say that their aware of)

     

    I have a day to day diary on the computer its a great way to remember things, and to see how your progressing.

     

    Take care

  10. Hi Jerome

     

    Warm welcome to the site, glad  you found us and so pleased you took that huge step in posting well done you...

     

    Wow you've been through it, but you are in no way a freak or a mess we've all probably felt like that one way or another.

     

    and just ditto what everyone else has said.

     

    hope to hear from you again soon...

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