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Partner of SAH. My story! Gray's Lyn


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Hiya Lyn,

My husband had a SAH in Feb this year (he comes on here too!) and was treated in Southampton too, we both originally lived in Southampton and moved to near Basingstoke a few years ago. Its tricky when you witness it all and for months I felt really lonely and really ''stupid'' for feeling soo horrid about everything. This site does send a life line out to everyone.

We made an appointment to see Headway at Basingstoke hospital (its only 15 mins from home) and they really helped too for both of us to understand what the other must have been feeling etc. We would have gone to Southampton if we lived closer. I too felt like I was being selfish, but honestly, you really are not. It is ok to worry, it does shows we care! ITs a shock to see it happen so it is ok to have concerns.

Neil is soo much better now and tends to only get forgetful if he is tired or stressed, the same with headaches too.

Hope the appoinment went well.

Dont feel guilty or selfish for how you feel - it IS normal, honest



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