Winb143

John,

Glad they got back to you, now you can relax ...We do not need stress..My surgeon said do not get stressed out....and then

you get people who let you down grrrrrrrrrrrrr..............ie in my case as I said no one turns up when they promised. to grrrrr....

Be Happy John...Good luck hope your results were ok and smile

Regards

WinB143

Let her know you love her still and keep calm and try not to worry too much .. Easier said than done etc. I know

Better out of hospital...too many germs in the hospitals I was in..but that was me.....

Good luck and take her for a meal...you have both been through it, now smile

All the Best

WinB143xx

Hi John,

I read your mail and got myself angry..lol...deep breath WinB phew that's better lol

Nothing worse than being let down....Give vent to feelings and then say a few swear words...then as I was told by Karen

when I was let down by physios not turning up....get it out of your system by giving vent on here ..then let it go .

But always have the last word John do not let them get to you. .Ready Breath in (xyz let me down Cheek ! lots swear words) breath out

Now laugh and smile

Regards

WinB143 x

Many thanks ...... What would I do without you all on BTG...you keep me up when down.....and there is always someone else worse than us....Many thanks, Ta, cheers, thanks,, etc etc lol ...

Love ya all

WinB143 xx

Only you can decide what to do....and do not be afraid of family ...it is you and your hubbys life and children.

If you Love him then fight for him.....if you have have had enough then explain to him without arguing if poss.

My language has got bad since SAH,,,,,,,,so my arguements contain bad words... it isn't your hubby its what he has gone through

Whatever happens. Good luck to you all....

Regards

WinB143 xx

Hiya Mags

Welcome to the site...Good place to have a moan lol.....and give vent to any worries.....

Keep smiling and good luck

WinB143 xx

Sandi, Jan and Mom, Lou Lou , Sami, Riane, Jess Lou Lou , Tracy, Carolyn last but not least .....Goldy, yeahhhh

Thanks for replies....as you said onwards and upwards ....Thank you all for Your encouragement

It really keeps me going. ...and never giving up.....between us all we can beat this SAH thingy ..lol

Daft Moo here singing soon be tap dancing !!! calm it Win ......

Luv ya all xx

WinB143 xxx

.

Sorry Sarah,

The brain isn't working lol... I read Sandi K's post and yours had 2 replies going on in my mind .....

I should know I can only do 1 answer at a time ha ha.

Have a good evening SarahL xx

Love

WinB143 xxx

Sorry Ninja/John

I cannot say that I have had that, just a tight band feeling which scared me.....You'll be ok (as you said get it checked ) better to be safe than sorry as they say,........Sorry I cannot help ,hope feeling has gone soon xxx try not to worry(easier said than done)

Regards

WinB143

We have to smile don't we Sarah xx

Hope you are Keeping Well ,,..did you go to the meeting in Nottingham?

Sorry I am laughing......watching athletics on tv and the commentator said how much experience the British discus thrower has

gained...What's she talking about...... he came last lol ......Well he cannot go any lower can he ? ahhhhh shame though

Love

WinB143 xx

Hi Sarah L,

Hope you are well and work is okay, ......I walk like I have peed myself lol but it is better than no walking lol

Hope you keep smiling and thanks for brightening my day Pal x

Love

WinB143 x

Hi all,

After being told I would not walk again by PT's, I have been walking in shopping centres etc pushing wheel chair..trying to prove them wrong.

Still not made it to M & S yet !! back hurts real bad.......... but wait for it !!!!!!!

I climbed my stairs!!!!.......ok used my hands near top but I made it to my bedroom...the state of it !!!!! lol....never moved so quick back down lol.. I looked like my Sarah when she was young climbing stairs .... Hubby has now done bedroom up,. well okay got rid of cobwebs....and changed the sheets bless him, it was done by myself in 2009 just before my SAH ....lol

He said, " I have not been in there without you" ahh Bless Him x... ...Good liar he is lol

My daughter said he slept on settee in case he got call from hospital.....ahhhh again..Sounds like a panto

Just want to say to You All ....................Never give up

Sharing this with you and thinking how much I love. him...until next cross words we have. ha ha

Love

WinB143 xx

I will look at the websites ....many thanks although I think mine was due to chatting a lot...ok and kissing lol

The hinges of my jaw used to click but Hubby never heard lol guess I was chatting again......like you do

when in Love and silly.. ...oh for those days again ...lol

Regards

WinB 143 x

Good for you James......was you happy when you came round?.......I was so happy to be alive and see my daughter ,hubby and family again.....

I was so elated that I had made it...They said I was singing in hospital...so I still sing now, ..poor family .

Learning to walk again.slow but sure ......today I walked pushing my wheelchair ....Keep Happy James

and never give up ......oh yes I forgot to say I had anni

All the..Best

WinB143 x...

Glad you are getting help Tracy.......When I was courting my hubby..When he kissed me goodnight my jaw used to go

Click Click..lol

I did not want to tell you earlier as it would have made how you felt well ...words ermmm as if I was not taking it serious......

Glad you are getting help..keep smiling

Regards

WinB143 xx

Hi there,

As the others said Victoria, just listen to body..ie...if tired rest but also !!!! ......get people to take you out for lunch and dinner

Then go shopping, ....to buy some chocs..then pass them to me lol

Seriously try and be happy if poss, smiling keeps me bright, also I sing a lot( My poor family) I am tone deaf lol

If you have a good day let your family know.....They have been scared for you, as mine were for me....but make the most

of it ...as they (My Family) are getting back to normal the better I get..lol, I just luv to be spoilt but SAH is a drastic step for being spoilt

Keep smiling Victoria and be happy.

Love

WinB143 xx

Welcome to BTG.....I was so happy when I came out of the dreamworld I was in......My Family have been the ones who have been thru the mill

Seriously I am really happy that I am alive and can see my daughter and hubby again..They are my life ......

If you feel down just think of your family Brothers Sisters and all ....

Glad of my Family ...sorry hospital didn't recognise your symptoms straight off really ....but we are here....yeah !!!!!!

Keep smiling if possible xx I always forgot others names so its just me lol so don't worry and sing x

Regards

WinB143 x

Thats the weight I want to be lol not kidding !!

Love

WinB143 xx

Read all the replies sent to you, take a step back and think ... think about you getting better every day.

Life is good...Have you got a family who love you?..if so give them a thought and what they have been through while you was ill.

Feel sad for youe friend ..say bye...then get better for your Families sake and yours.

Sorry about your friend it is sad, Keep head high and chin up xx

Regards

WinB143 x

Hi Sandi,

We are so quick aren't we Sandi .....Have a calm week xxx

Love

WinB143 xx okay here goes .....Hi Nick Hope you are fine now

Oh to be 9/5 again my aim is 12 stone lol ....It is all those chocs I ate when I had shunt fitted...and came back to land of living

Well I haven't walked for one and a half years......today is a good day for me limping about the house,,so I'll never give up...even tho told by PT's ...."she will never walk again"

Keep well all xx.

Love

WinB143 ....wobble when I walk xx....ie fatty xx

Hi Robert

I have had SAH, ..was out of it for approx a year...what with Sepsis and Ventriculitus ...glad I had shunt fitted ..living in the real world now..

My Dads sister had brain op...but all my family said her hubby had hit her on the head..Nice Family..lol

She might of had SAH ? but just passed out, all she remembered was turning on lights.She was never the same and I don't know if it was SAH, I was only young in fact too young to remember....she had a dent in her temple area??

Good luck

Regards

WinB143 x Sorry I cannot be of help

My Tum has been playing me up Jess just like yours

Love

Windy Win lol xxxx........`once again Good luck xx

Hi Laura

My right eye feels weaker than before the op..look (takes a choc while Laura looks at eye) yum gulp gone

Hope you get good news on eyes and keep calm...here have another choc..what I ate them all? No Way!

Good Luck

WinB143 alias chocolate face x

Hi Karen,

I am not helping you`as`I cannot remember my first year although my daughter said I was chatting but mostly sleeping

and when I chatted I made no sense lol ....Whats new !!

Try and take it calmer and when down, ermmm ,,,I sing....(can you sing?) we could do a duet J/K I am a bad singer.

Try and rest...or try and laugh at things whatever makes you feel good about you and if poss SMILE !

Take Care

Good Luck

Regards

WinB143 x