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hi fiona welcome to BTG your very early in recovery so take it easy look forward to speaking to you soon donna

Ditto what evryone else has said take care donna

I to have really bad periods and moods (which are bad enough without this) the week leading up to mine i can be sure if there is cold or flu going about i will catch it (mildly) and you cant look at me for about 10 dyas my only saving grace is my cycle is long im not allowed the coil as i havent had any children and they dont like given it out

hi i too dream alot some feel really real and i can even wake up shouting or crying if its sad . im putting this down to my medication too but i can be very upsetting at the time. beofore my SAH i did dream but never as intense as now. donna

thanks everyone found out im not intitled to free dental but o well ill just have to wait !!

I feel like that game, Buckaroo. Bit by bit, things get placed upon me, but then if the pressure is too much, the slightest thing can make me buck and I throw everything off! I guess this shows I need to manage people better. I can’t change, but they can, so I guess the onus is on them! Otherwise, I’m going to ‘buck’ off!! Lynne lynne this is how i feel alot of the time i hope you get the matter sorted out ok with the other person at the meeting take care donna

trish i totally agree with this i was always on the go working 50 to 60 hrs a week in my own job helping my dad with his work.partying at the weekend 2/3 nights i can just about manage 1 then im in bed for 2 days :lol: i still struggle with this slower me now and will try to do what i used to do every so often donna

Ive always had normal to borderline blood pressure and its been low ish since ......

With all this talk about people going to the dentist i was wondering do you still pay for dentist work while claiming ESA? :biggrin:

Hi Mary welcome to the site you had some time of it hope to speak soon donnatake care

just wanted to say a big thank you to everyone who replied donna:-D:-D:-D:biggrin::biggrin::redface:

Sort of it is to do with income protection/life cover it was a doctor from my surgery that filled in it but i have an appointment in the morning so going to speak to my doctor im just trying to get helpwith bills etc Regarding the doctor that assessed you as having ‘no problems,’ was s/he anything to do with benefits? Lynne I have accepted that i wont be 100% again which means giving up my job as i will never beable to return(havent told them yet) and find something new that im able to do ???? nearly 10months since SAH and still having real bad problem with headaches (since start) anyone no any mircale jobs??:confused: donna ps lyn i could of typed out the problem u have as my own but i struggle to say what im thinking or even to write it down when my mind wants to go blank i can do nothing about ....

I personally dont think anyone can recover 100% either. the form the doctor filled in was 6 pages long all about me and my SAH if i had any problem etc etc im not really a swearer but if i typed what i was thinging about them there would be alot of blanks long story short the form say there nothing wrong with me (i wish) im 27 and would love to be out partying etc working so i have money and enjoying life :devil::devil::devil::devil::devil::devil::mad2::mad2:

Has anyone here recovered 100% if not what problems do you deal with daily?? I feel that everyone i no thinks im 100% because i look ok but i no im not they just think that if you give them antidepressent all willbe better. ps just been nosey has i hadmy medical form completed and says i have no problems but this is from a doctor i have never met:shock:

when i had my anniogram it was so cold they couldnt feel the pulse in my feet it took themabout 10 mins to find it then they marked themwith big x in felt tip

Good luck with the scan hope all is well donna

I think for everyone its different while ct scan may be best for someone they may not work for someone ese hence the fact we trust our doctors to make the right decesion for us. Ive had all of the above and the only way to see mine is anniogram (except the coiled 1 can be picked up on all post op)i also think the worst 1 to go through i anniograms as they are time consuming and painful donna

welcome to behind the gray look forward to chatting with you donna

I never even thought about this before i got through my first winter without getting the flu and not been offered the jab either but ive have picked up a few colds here and there not sure if i would have the jab or not prob not !!

hi all just to let you no i got my claim through for now anyway bay i would double check on that im only 27 and im getting the type that you use national insurance contbridtions as my husband is aon a good wage on his job happydawn i photocopy everything i send as i forget about it as soon as it goes they make you feel like a fraud when trying to claim

hi bay sorry to hear your having a hard time at the minute. ive the same problem with the weight since the day i left hospital ive put on nearly 2 stone (needed some of it ) but the rest is starting to really get me down . Im on tablets to help with headache which i have to take every night before bed dont think they are helping much at the minute but fingerscrossed . My Headaches are always worse when ive done something like going to town cleaning the house. I think your maybe doing to much and need to try and relax i no you dont like taking tablets but if they help id give them a wee go . if you ever want to chat just email me im alway close by and get emails really quickly ( except when ive the cold) take care and speak soon donna

hi dermot and welcome to BTG im 27 too and had my sah 10 months ago. Im only now trying to get back to the gym at the minute ive booked an induction next week to get a slow programme to start with not sure about weights but i was told to live as if it had never happened by my consultant except not to bungie jump or deep sea dive think i can manage this . i also had asked about rollercoasters etc im im allowed to go on any of them speak soon donna

Hi Chris a big warm welcome to behind the gray:biggrin:

thanks chris im ggoing this weekend got my ear plugs at the ready donna

the day i left hospital i didnt even get a leaflet just sent on my merrry way i had to try and explain to friends and family what had happened as most knew nothing about it there should be a lot more information available for patients and family Glad ur meeting help with your OT take care donna