Hi there Laura and Donna yes I went through a stage like that after my sah, however it does get better now I think, well if he leaves he leaves don't keep fretting over it now if he goes I will find someone else that's life lots of people split up. However I don't think either of your chaps would leave you and not being funny or anything and I sincerely aren't, but your fellows might both be thinking the same about you two your both on facebook. So maybe they joined to see what its all about. Don't worry. Jess.xxx