Hi John,
Welcome to BTG. You will find many wonderful people on this web site that will help with you any questions you have.
We have learned that people of all ages suffer an SAH. The reasons are unknown.
I am so sorry to learn of the passing of your father. I also lost my father this year. Dealing with the death of a parent is a very hard thing to go through.
Please do not push yourself to do too much. You really must take it very slow. you are very early in your recovery and you need to rest as much as you can. Pushing youself too hard to only make your recovery slower, not to mention how you will feel. Stress the importance to your housemate the serverity of what you have gone through and the importance of them doing for YOU at this time. It does get better, you are the one who needs to rest.
Hope to hear more from you.
Take care of yourself.
Cal
XXX