Samswife Posted February 4, 2022 Share Posted February 4, 2022 Hi all🌺  Thank you for sharing all your stories- you have NO Idea what a help And comfort It has been the past few Weeks.  2 weeks ago my husband- Sam-had a bleed. He is 56, fit and  bit of a “health freak”. He was at the gym, early morning session, feeling great, when he felt a “pop” in the back of his head (while doing chest press ) followed by intense discomfort. It was quickly followed by dizzyness and nausea. He did not pass out. He managed to get a hold of me, telling me he had probably pulled a muscle badly in neck, and could I drive him home. As I got I him, the nausea, pain and dizziness  was bad. But we drove home! Can’t really believe we didn’t go straight to hospital. At home this LOUD convulsive vomiting started. It Was different from normal vomiting. It went on and on. With so much neck pain every time he vomited.  We were talking about what to do. Sam wanted me to examine his neck (I am a physio). I didn’t want to. Thought perhaps he had a badly herniated disc. Or meningitis. or even a broken vertebrae.  I never thought he had a bleed. There was no neurological sign. No loss of strength. The GP came to our house. Pretty much took one look at him, and called an ambulance. At the local hospital they did a scan- and SO MUCH to our shock and surprise- it showed a subarachnoid bleed in the brainstem. Quickly he was airlifted to Much larger hospital. More Scans. And also an operation- which showed there was no aneurysm. After that everyone seemed a lot calmer. He stayed in intensive care till the next day-and in the hospital for a further 4 days. His early symptoms In the first days was nausea, still some  vomiting , headache, neck pain, tearful,  and pain in his buttocks. Over the next days he was given pain medication, fluids, rest and monitoring. Hospital was great. And it quickly became clear- that he was so so Lucky. He can think, and talk and move freely. For that we are gratefull. It has been a crazy ride. The first scare, supporting our sons, comforting my husband in this scary time. He was just SO brave and strong though. Back home he is still on painkillers. In the first days mainly for headache. But that is so much better. He forgets a few Things.. misses a word occasionally. .. struggles with too much noise or screentime. But.. we know it could have been so much worse. His absolutely biggest struggle right now is an INTENSE pain in his lower spine / sacrum Area. It takes his breath away. Makes him cry out in pain. Makes him uneasy in standing and walking.  He is very anxious to find out what it is- but doctors don’t seem to agree. One doctor thought it was residue from the bleed in the spinal fluid. Another totally dismissed this, said it was the lying down/ inactivity. He DOES move around - Sits in chair, goes for short walks. Has any of you experienced this?? How long did it last? What did you do ? Hope someone can share their experiences and advice.  Much Iove Tanja Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClareM Posted February 4, 2022 Share Posted February 4, 2022 Hi Tanja  I experienced this pain post by bleed in 2015. I was still in hospital but the pain in my lower body and legs was excruciating. I was told it was the blood dissipating down my spinal cord. I was on regular painkiller while in hospital and for a time after for both the headaches and the leg pain. Make sure your husband is taking regular prescribed or recommended pain killers. The pain did stop after a week or so.  It sounds like he has done really well only being in hospital for 5 days, however his recovery journey is at an early stage. Noise will be a big issue in the first few weeks, try and protect him from that. I couldn't have the volume very high on the TV. If your kids are young try and impress on them the importance of being quieter around daddy. His memory may not be as sharp as it was before and he may not be able to be as physically active as before. But keep faith time is a great healer.  I am fitter than I was before my bleed which shows that you can regain physical fitness after a bleed. My thoughts are with you and your family. I hope you continue to find some reassurance from the site, feel free to post any other questions you may have.  Take good care  Clare xx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tina Posted February 5, 2022 Share Posted February 5, 2022 Hi Tania  A very warm welcome to BTG.  I can relate like Clare, to all that your husband Sam is going through. I also had bleed in the brainstem, mine was a ruptured aneurysm. I was clipped. Like Sam i had terrible headaches, neck and back pain. The lower back pains for me lasted for about 2 months, but did ease. My balance was also affected and had double vision.  I came home from being in hospital just over a month with Paracetamol and Ibuprofen which i was told to take together every 4 /6 hours. This did take the edge off a bit. As Clare has mentioned its important to take the pain meds regularly because boy do you notice the pain come back with a vengeance if you dont.  It is very very early days in his recovery, he is doing really well. Things will get better & better with time. Clare's post above should give you that reassurance  Just make sure Sam paces himself and does not push too hard too quickly. His body will let him know if he does. Rest rest rest and drink plenty of water, it really does help.  You take care too Tania as it is such a worrying stressful, emotional, scary time for you all xx  As Clare has said, feel free to ask any other questions you may have.  Wishing you all well,  Take care Love Tina xx         Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swishy Posted February 5, 2022 Share Posted February 5, 2022 Hi Tanja,  I too had terrible pain at the bottom of my spine and was told it was residual blood ... It was very painful, I couldn't rest my bottom on the bed without pain. The neuro team at the hospital told me about it and told me it would happen but it didn't happen until I was in rehab and they seemed a bit skeptical about it. I was glad my neuro team had prepared me and it came and went in a week or so as they said.  I hope this pain passes for him soon. This is all a lot for him and you to go through. I know it is scary and things don't seem to get better as quickly as we would like.   Jean 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rory Posted February 9, 2022 Share Posted February 9, 2022 I'm surprised a doctor dismissed that this was blood reabsorption along the spinal cord, which I was told by the doctors who cared for me was common and to be expected after a NASAH. That part--the pain along the back, hips, and legs--lasted about 2 weeks for me, then gradually went away. As you heard from others, other symptoms can last longer, months even, which varies from person to person. But for me, 13 months later, things are largely improved so occasionally I still get a bad headache. Â Everyone's different, but this does get better, especially for folks who are in general good health. Mine happened while cycling up a a pretty steep hill--seems exercise-induced NASAHs are pretty common. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esedlock Posted March 10, 2022 Share Posted March 10, 2022 I also had pain and discomfort in my pelvis/ back when I had my bleed five months ago. Plus, I was very fit and strong AND then, boom, I was in the ICU for almost two weeks and in/out of bed for a month after that recovering. I had muscle pain from atrophy, I think, and that made the discomfort worse. My hips would ache like crazy but it has subsided, thankfully, so it might be blood reabsorption combined with muscle confusion. I hope he is feeling better. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenc Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 Hi. I hope Sam is continuing to mend. I had a NASAH on 24/2/22 doing a very stretchy neck yoga move (and was very emotionally stressed so think my BP was high anyway!)  Discharged from Kings hosp on 28th, but back to my local hosp in Kent just 24 hours later with extreme cramping hamstrings /restless legs. They said it was blood in CSF aggravating the nerves at the base of the spine. Oromorph helped.  1 month on, 1 still get weird numb sensation around bum (they didn’t think it was Cauda Equina Syndrome) and very sharp pain off to the side of tailbone. Hamstrings still very tight and uncomfortable ( and shortened) but I’m coping with just paracetamol now. Xxx  2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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