Deborah Posted December 8, 2021 Share Posted December 8, 2021 Hi. This is Debbie, and tomorrow is the one year anniversary that I had my SAH. I had a non-aneurysmal SAH, and was in Intensive Care (I live in the states) for 10 days. I had some symptoms and still have more headaches than I'd like, but for the most part, I am 95%, maybe a little less, but I am extremely lucky. The night it happened, my daughter was in college in Boston (I live in NJ), and I had to tell her over the phone. She and my husband (who were here) were up all night and waiting for news, and endured the 10 days while I was alone because no one was allowed in the hospital during COVID. Question, my daughter called me crying, I am thinking of going up to Boston. Is this a celebration? It seems like it should be, however I also feel like we are re-living trauma. My husband is very devoted, but he says he doesn't feel anything about the day (like we do). Any thoughts? Thank you! 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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