amexdm Posted November 25, 2011 Share Posted November 25, 2011 Hello, I know that anger can be a little side affect with SAH but have managed it pretty well so far. I just find when someone pushes me I get MORE angry then I might have pre SAH. The problem: My wife has just been diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer. We don't know what stage until they operate. It could be treatable or it could be bad, we have no idea. It has certainly set me back considering i have an SAH. I just found out 5 days ago. The point is she has been very angry and abusive towards me. I understand she is scared and I support her with all my strength and heart. She took care of me 24/7 when I was sick and I will do the same for her. But she cannot control her anger and doesnt think she does anything wrong. I realise this is normal for a cancer patient but there has to be a limit. I have asked her to not speak to me that way as I am trying to help her. It has become intolerable. The only thing I can think to do is leave the house for a few hours but then I feel like I'm abandoning her. I know its early but it has gone south quick. Anybody have any anger control techniques they can suggest when someone is taking it out on you? Thanks everyone. David Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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