Hi David I hope your wife gets the help she needs and is soon on her way to recovery, I feel for you the way your wife has been with you however it must be really hard for her too, I understand where you are coming from but I can also see why your wife is angry and it isn't you she is angry with it is the cancer. Think back to when you had your sah I expect you changed quite alot especially at the start, just remember how you felt when you found out it was a sah. Your wife as just found out she has cancer she must feel so scared right now and so alone. I know you are there for her but let her know and keep telling her and let her know you love her don't let a day go by without telling her. Jess.xxx