Guest Pauld31 Posted December 10, 2009 Share Posted December 10, 2009 Hell my name is Paul and in March of this year my 44 year old wife Mandy had a Sub arachnoid Haemorrhage . She has made a remarkable recovery and is back at work full time as an hospital ward clerk. However things at home are far different as she seems emotionally cold to my 3 sons and myself. I sense that she is withdrawing into herself as time goes on and I know she must be feeling frustrated with her new unexpected sitution. I hope i dont sound selfish but it is like living with a stranger as she rarely talks to us ( me in particular 0 unless it is a complaint or a direct instruction. She refuses to go anywhere with me even christmas shopping but will go out with a couple of her friends - 1 in particular but the rest of her friends and family are treated with almost contempt as though she is angry at us for carrying on as normal. I would do anything to help her but she just says " what are you going to do , wave a magic wand ? " Any help or advice would be gratefully recieved. I can see just by looking on this web site that many peoples lives are torn in 2 by this all to commomn medical problem Thanks for listening Paul Davies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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