Jan53 Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 Hi my name is Jan, and I suffered a SAH on Sat November 13th 2009. My husband and I were babysitting our 2 grandaughters aged 18mths and 7 yrs. I had just brought the baby down from giving her a bath at approx 7.50. I sat in the chair to dry her when I got a terrible pain in the left side of my face. I new nothing much more until the Thursday when I found out I had suffered a SAH which was coiled. At first I could not believe how ill I felt. I had no support group close at hand so was left just plodding along feeling quite ill and thinking I was going to die. After a couple of emergency returns to hospital and speaking to a doctor there, I was given a better insite into what had happened to me. I discovered this website last week, it has been of great help to me. I went to my GP this morning as my sick note was due, My HR Manager had visited me yesterday to say my sick pay would be halved at the beginning of Feb. I was horrified, upset and scared wondering how I was going to pay for my bank loan and car (I do have payment protection). I was determined I would have to go back to work before then, albeit on reduced hours. My GP has said this morning no way, and given me a sick note for another 4 weeks. He said if when I do get back to work, he would not expect to be able to go back to full time until 3 to 6 mths after my phased return. Still panicking about money when I got home, I rang both my insurance companies who have put my mind at rest regarding money. I now feel more relaxed, and can give more time to trying to get back on the road to recovery. I still feel pretty ill on my bad days, mainly feeling sick, a woosy head and queer sensation in my head. Today is a good day, although I will have to have a rest from the pc as my head is starting to hurt. I look forward to hearing from you and all and discussing my story further. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bogbrush Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 Hi Jan and welcome to behindthegray. Glad that you are getting some help and comfort from this site. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Louise Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 Hi Jan And a warm welcome to the site..... think all employers are different but I thought you had to be off at least 6mths (if not a year) before they halved the pay, getting intouch with the Citizen advice is a good idea that way they can tell you what's what. but glad you mind was put at ease with the insurance.... You are really early in your recovery taking it easy is the best thing.... take care Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cal Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 Hi Jan, Welcome to BTG. It does seem so unfair with work at times. Just remember your getting better is the most important thing. Take things very slow you are still early in recovery. Things really do get better. Cal XXXX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rod123 Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 Hi Jan and welcome to the site, it is all a bit of a worryat first in more ways than one but it does all sort it self out as you go along and things get easier with time Best wishes Rod Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janet Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 Hi Jan A warm welcome to the site glad that has helped you any questions please ask there is always someone around to answer them. Look forward to hearing more from you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 Welcome to BTG, glad you now have peace of mind re finances and can concentrate on getting better instead. Your GP sounds like he/she has your best interests covered and is being realistic and sensible. Everyone here knows what you are experiencing and it can be a great source of comfort Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skippy Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 Hey Jan A very warm welcome to the site and to the family. So glad that you found us when you needed us most. This site has been pivotal to me over the last three years for advice, comfort, understanding, support, encouragement - the list goes on. I hope that you get as much from this site and I have. Looking forward to getting to know you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tina Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 Hi Jan a very warm welcome to BTG.....the others have said it all so glad you found us Take care Love Tina xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vivien Posted January 13, 2010 Share Posted January 13, 2010 Hello Jan and welcome to this site It does seem that the surgeons fix us and let us go home not knowing what is going on! Vivien x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michelle C Posted January 13, 2010 Share Posted January 13, 2010 Hello Jan Welcome to the family....well hows this then i had my SAH/stroke same date two years earlier 13th november 2007!!! As everyone has said take it easy rest when your body tells you and keep posting when you're head/eyes will let you...i still have to rest from my pc as well. Looking forward to chatting soon. Take care Michelle C xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perrycornish Posted January 14, 2010 Share Posted January 14, 2010 Hello Jan and a very warm welcome from me too. I won't add much as the others here before me hae, I think said it all:-D So pleased that your GP sounds supportive and that your initial worries about finance have receded a bit. Just listen to your body, it will have got it right. If you have any little niggles at all, about life after SAH, and all it involves please don't just worry and fret.......Ask, there will be someone here who knows the answer. I look forward to your next post and to getting to know you better:-D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myratas Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 Hello Jan and a warm welcome to our family. We are always here for a friendly chat and advice about anything. Hope to hear from you soon when you are ready, take care of yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MelB Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 (edited) Welcome Jan, I believe this site will be of great help. I agree with Vivien's comment, once the mechanical bits have been fixed, it can feel like now your left to deal with the aftermath. Having the right support and information can be most therapeutic in helping get through the early months of recovery. I look foward to hearing from you again soon, Best Wishes, Edited January 15, 2010 by MelB typo error Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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