jess Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 Hi everyone just wanted to let you know it does get easier over time. Yes I still get headaches a bit of dizzyness but overall my life is a lot better. I would like to thank the brain and spine foundation and behind the gray for all their help and support over the years, without them I don't know where I would of been. I now know how suddenly it can all be over, no its not nice knowing that however it has given me the opportunity to make sure my children know I love them everyday. Me and my husband split up at the start of this year and to be honest it was the best thing that could happen, I married him for all the wrong reasons however I am glad I did, not because he supported me far from it he actually made me feel guilty for having the sah, but I will always be glad he was apart of my life because without him I wouldn't have my two beautiful boys. I feel that I have now finally accepted my sah and can move on from it so don't ever feel alone there will always be someone out there to listen and offer advice. Jess.xxx Ps and if you want to ask anything please just pm me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myratas Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 Happy 10th Anni-versary Jess You are so positive in your outlook, I wish I had that at times. Sorry to hear about your husband but sometimes it is a blessing in disguise, that's how I look at it since my divorce. You have 2 beautiful boy's I hope you go and enjoy the rest of your life to the full. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldfish.girl Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 Hi Jess, I love the positivity in your post. Every cloud has a silver lining - yours is your two boys. I've even found a silver lining in having in an SAH (much as we would all wish we never had) it has given me the insight I need to help my son after his own brain op. I can hand information to his school - that's easy - but being able to explain all his issues with a personal insight is invaluable. There are always positives it just sometimes takes a long time to find them. Michelle xx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jess Posted August 26, 2012 Author Share Posted August 26, 2012 Thank you Myra xxx Thank you Michelle I will always be glad I had the sah I know that sounds silly but I am glad because lets face it hospitals Drs everyone still need to learn the signs so if ever my children have one I will be able to tell the hospital forget all your tests they need a MRI scan now. Jess.xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donna79 Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 Jess, Happy 10th ANNI - VERSARY x x x x x you are an amazing person who has helped me through some rough times and I would like to say now a HUGE thank you x x x x x and I am sure I will have many more questions for you in the future x x x lots love and a massive hug from ME XX 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldfish.girl Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 How things turn on a penny... Much as I stand by my post above, things changed about an hour later but the positive side is still relevant. Just in need of a bit of tweaking Michelle xx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaryB Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 Congrat Jess....IS is me or is it this time of year when there are a lot of anniversary's going on? You are always upbeat and look at the bright side of things. Good luck, MaryB 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skippy Posted August 27, 2012 Share Posted August 27, 2012 Hey Jess Congrats on your Anniversary - you've always managed to put a smile on my face (haven't seen you for ages now). Sorry to hear about you and Kev but like you say, its for the best, and you definitely have two gorgeous boys. You're an inspiration to us all Jess - keep smiling. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karen Posted August 27, 2012 Share Posted August 27, 2012 Congratulations Jess! and here's to new beginnings and finding true happiness again! Wishing you well and a big thank you from me, for your personal support and the help that you've given with this site over the years. Lots of love xxx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandi K Posted August 27, 2012 Share Posted August 27, 2012 Congratulations Jess! Your words are hopeful and it's comforting to read that things get better. Thank you for sharing and supporting everyone here. Sandi K. Xoxo 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Louise Posted August 27, 2012 Share Posted August 27, 2012 Happy 10th Ani Jess milestone. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janet Posted August 27, 2012 Share Posted August 27, 2012 Hi Jess Happy Annie-versary sorry its a bit late been away all weekend. Wishing you all the best for the future with your two lovely boys 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winter Posted August 27, 2012 Share Posted August 27, 2012 Happy 10th Anni-versary, Jess! It's great that you can see the positive sides of things and you just keep going. You do have 2 wonderful boys and so much life ahead of you. Thank you for all your help and funnies you've shared on BTG!!! Wishing you much happiness in the years to come Big hugs across the pond, Carolyn 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jess Posted August 27, 2012 Author Share Posted August 27, 2012 Thanks everyone not actually my anniversary till 7th September but I think I will make it till then lol. Seriously though not long got back from fetching Garry from tunbury wells he has been camping with karate club he loved it bless him. Right better go got to put the little one to bed. Jess.xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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