Hi Mel....this is very normal, it is still such early days.....i was the same,emotions all over the place, still can be at times.....it is so frustrating, just trying to do the smallest thing. The extreme tiredness is also very debilitating. Makes me mad that people that really need help, find it so hard. There just is not the support out there that should be for SAH. I have been very lucky i have a very understanding GP. Can you speak to your GP and ask for a further Med 4 for 6 months ? I was hoping to be back to work...but am not quite ready. I have a Doctors note for another 3 months. The stress of having to go back to work will not help your husband if he is feeling this way....let alone be able to cope going back to work! Your GP centre should have someone that can advise you....ask your GP. I wish you both well , hope you get the help you deserve. take care , love Tina xx