jess Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 Morning 🌅 all xxx Cannot believe 21 years have gone since the day of my bleed it feels like a lifetime ago but occasionally can feel like only yesterday xxx I still get bad days but they aren't as often. I have done alot in 21 years but the two things I am most proud of are my two boys 19 and 15 (16 in a few days) xxx Life does go on after it you get a choice to either live it or live in the past. I chose the past for quite a while after it caused me to live with fear and worry over it happening again which is horrible, then I had the fear of not seeing my children grow up (it will come back again no doubt when my first grandchild arrives) but I will get through it like I always have xxx In 2020 I found out I had 3 more aneurysms but it was also the year we found out my mom 👩 had cancer. I decided to live the rest of my life worry free from that point on as I had always hidden away to cry on bad days didn't want my children to remember me crying and frightened wanted them to have Happy memories of holidays days out me smiling I haven't cried about my health since my mom died in April 2021and I am living my best life now working full-time, my eldest lives at a castle (he got a job there working with kids) only for a year until uni (he says I'm not so sure he'll want to leave) but whatever makes him happy as I know (we know) how suddenly life can be over so I just want my children to be happy xxx Enough about me thanks to everyone on btg for sharing their good and bad times as it all helped me through I will always be glad I found this group and hopefully I shall be here for a few more years to offer support and advice xxx 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karen Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 Many congratulations Jess on your 21st SAH Anniversary! 🥂 You've done wonderfully well raising your two boys and should be very proud of all you've achieved. Thank you for all your help, support and wise words that you offer on BTG. Enjoy your special day. xx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jess Posted September 7, 2023 Author Share Posted September 7, 2023 Thanks Karen I shall try but have blood test and work 😭lol xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeithH Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 Congratulations Jess on your 21st SAH Anniversary Taking each day as it comes, is how I find my way through things. You've been through a lot, your boys are a credit to you. Onwards and Upwards 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jess Posted September 7, 2023 Author Share Posted September 7, 2023 Thanks ❤ Keith xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Louise Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 Congrats Jess on 21yrs Ani-versary you truly are an isparations.... ❤️ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Compostc Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 Happy 21st Anniversary Jess Hope you have a wonderful day. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SarahLS Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 Congratulations on your 21st Anni-versary. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skippy Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 Congrats Jess xx You've come so far and have been a fantastic help to all on here!! You're an inspiration for what determination can achieve xxx I can remember the Notts meet when your youngest was just a toddler!!! You're a star xx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jess Posted September 7, 2023 Author Share Posted September 7, 2023 Thanks ♥ everyone xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClareM Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 Sorry late to the party Jess! Happy anni-versary, you have done really well and should be proud of your family. xx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jess Posted September 7, 2023 Author Share Posted September 7, 2023 Thanks ❤ clare xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
subzero Posted September 8, 2023 Share Posted September 8, 2023 Hello Jess and a big WELL DONE twenty one years on. Thanks for sharing. So many challenges during that time and you are an inspiration to others with your determination to fight for your health and for your special family unit. Great to see how well your lads have supported you as they too have faced their challenges of growing up into 'young men'. Your are right to be so proud of them. Subs 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Tina Posted September 10, 2023 Share Posted September 10, 2023 Awww Jess 🥰 congratulations on your 21st Anni-versary xx You really are such an inspiration and an amazing lovely lady xx You have been through so much, you should be so very proud Take care Love Tina xx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Swishy Posted September 15, 2023 Share Posted September 15, 2023 Congratulations Jess on 21 years... Take care xx Jean 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Sallios Posted September 16, 2023 Share Posted September 16, 2023 Congratulations. That’s such encouraging news xx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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